Like the true digital native I am not, I am floored by this. I write for a living, what I've always wanted to do. Understand the money I make is not major by most people's standards, and I am only afforded the life of stay-at-home mom/writer because D has a job as an accountant. But I was doing this for free and now people pay me, and I don't know any of them. We've only met on the Internet. It's awesome and weird and I keep waiting for it to all fall apart.
Every time my paycheck comes, this is how I look:
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That's why when I started on my simplicity journey I really didn't think work was an area of my life that needed a makeover. I'm doing what I love while still home, and I take pleasure in my job even on the days when everything else falls apart.
What I didn't understand is that in itself can be a trap. So can not having an office or a place to retreat to work, not setting work hours, and feeling like working everyday is a good idea because I can. I mean, I'm just a freelance writer who works part-time. There's no way this could get out of control.
But sound rules and guidelines can create simplicity, and I needed some. As the months wore on, I realized I wasn't taking any days off, I was working in bits and pieces all day and night, and I felt constantly frazzled even though I still enjoyed what I was doing.
I'd like to say these realizations inspired me to make a change, but they didn't. What did was watching another woman, one of my editors, make a change. She disappeared one weekend, not returning emails or approving submitted drafts. Of course, I assumed she was only ignoring me and that I was being very quietly fired, my dream finally dying like I always suspected it would.
Turns out, she messaged all of her writers the next Monday saying she had decided to take some time for herself, for her kids, uninterrupted time, time where the threat of work intruding just wasn't a factor. She was refreshed and relaxed and has been taking weekends off ever since, I believe.
I suddenly thought, "Yeah, you know, that makes a lot of sense." And I started doing the same thing. Empowered women empower other women.
It's required a ton of planning and being intentional with every minute of my time on the days I do work. I set aside big blocks of time when others in the house are the least likely to be affected, and then I have to push to meet deadlines. The payoff has been worth it. I'm producing more work than ever, and I have a consecutive 48 hours every week where work is not a factor.
It wasn't until I did this that I realized the importance of checking to make sure I am emotionally and mentally available as opposed to just physically. When you're with your people all day like I am as a homeschooling mom, it's easy to think that grabbing a few minutes here and there to work is no big deal. However, without hours set aside for when I would work and complete tasks, my deadlines hung over me all day long. I thought about them, logged onto the computer to work on bits and pieces, and stayed physically present while not being very mentally in tune with those around me.
Setting up my simple dos and and don'ts for work has worked wonders. It's allowed me to be productive, to rest, and to offer myself fully to others in a way I wasn't before.
God rested, not because He needed to but because He was setting an example. There is simplicity in Sabbath, no matter when we do it.